My outlook goes something like this: I love the realism represented in URW, how the world operates based on intuitively understandable real life logic. But, I also want to enjoy my time playing the game as the player and not get carpal tunnel as much from repetetive actions that add little to my experience, so I frequently compromise the "technical" realism if that lets me get more enjoyable gameplay flow.
For example, I found that preparing and eating a tiny meal 3-4 times a day as URW character was too much fussing to constantly repeat, and was not enjoyable as the player. So instead I compromised (made more abstract) the technical water content in each cooking recipe to allow them to come out more nutrient-rich and concentrated. Each recipe lost realism in that it now only needed an abstract 1lb of water, instead of the real life measurements needed. It just became a "do you have water? ok good enough, we don't care too much about the amount you have". But in exchange, now you got nutrient rich pots of food becoming possible, and could eat twice or even once a day and be at "abundant" with some of those modded meals, but crucially for realism it still didn't create any nutrients out of thin air, it's still the same realistic nutrients you always had. You just no longer have to fuss as much on the keyboard to do the daily task of feeding yourself.
I feel like making stuff like that more abstract can be a very worthy sacrifice sometimes, where it improves the core gameplay loop & user convenience.